One Kind-hearted Lady
Acts of kindness, no matter how small, are very impactful.
There was this lady I knew. She lived in the small town community that I grew up in. And she was kind. Probably one of the kindest ladies you could ever meet.
It’s hard to explain, but you just felt like she sincerely cared about your life and everything in it, on every single occasion you met. Love and kindness radiated from her.
She passed away suddenly a few weeks ago, and everyone seems to have a story about how she impacted them in some way. She brought comfort and peace to so many local citizens, whether it was after a recent loss of a close relative or during a personal illness. Through just a knowing look and the squeeze of a hand, people felt truly empowered by her care and concern.
Maria was an immigrant; for a long while the only one in a relatively conservative town. She immigrated from South America as an international exchange student during the 60’s. She was an extremely hard worker, but she also suffered from chronic pain starting at a young age. However, all of that didn’t stop her from spreading kindness wherever she went.
And now an entire town is feeling her loss. There is no greater power or beauty than the feeling that someone sincerely cares. Wouldn’t we all like to be remembered for the joy we spread rather than the judgement and disregard?
30 Acts of Kindness that are Zero Waste
Acts of kindness are zero waste; and they are treasured forever. Following are 30 ideas to inspire you to spread kindness everywhere you go. You will never regret it.
- Smile randomly at those you meet.
- Go out of your way to give a compliment.
- Donate unneeded clothing and other items to those in need.
- Pick up any litter you see, or make a day of it!
- Pay for someone’s beverage or meal or even groceries.
- Tip an Uber driver or a DoorDash delivery driver just a little bit extra.
- Write a positive review for a small business you have used.
- Thank someone for the impact they are making in your life.
- Leave change at a machine (laundromat, parking, etc)
- Donate extra books to your local library (Maria volunteered at one).
- Leave a positive comment on a blog.
- Put together an Acts of Service scavenger hunt with a group of friends or family members.
- Sign up for a Thrive Market membership and they will automatically donate a membership to a low-income family so that they might afford to eat well, too.
- Deliver a baked treat or a meal to a neighbor who could use a little help.
- Visit a sick person or the elderly in the hospital, nursing home or assisted living.
- Write a kindness message on a bathroom mirror.
- Write or email someone who made a difference in your life.
- Leave a box of goodies for your mailman or other service person.
- Learn people’s names whom you see every day, and use them.
- Compliment a parent on how well-behaved their child is.
- Set a kindness alarm on your phone to go off each day. Do something kind right then.
- If you receive excellent customer service, take a few minutes to let their manager know.
- On Mothers’ or Fathers’ day, remember those who have lost theirs and check in with them to see how they’re doing.
- When the weather is bad out, check with that elderly neighbor to see if they need anything picked up or their sidewalks shoveled.
- Thank a veteran for their service by hiring one the next time you need an odd job done.
- Encourage someone to pursue their dreams.
- Grant a wish for a foster child.
- Lend money to a third world entrepreneur.
- Help support the needs of military families with a deployed love one.
- Paint small rocks with inspirational messages such as “You matter.” Join the “You Matter” Marathon.
Go now and remember that every one of us on this earth truly matters. Help spread the kindness of Maria.
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